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How to Successfully Avoid Someone. In our daily life, sometimes we meet unnamed people who intensely want to know more about us. When we meet people that we like it will not give us any trouble but when we meet someone that we do not really want to know, it will become a trouble for us especially when that people want to know more about us. Some of us maybe successfully avoid this people by ignoring him or her all the time but for some other people it will be more difficult.
To avoid someone that we do not like - who intensely want to get acquaintance with us - there are some tips that we can do, below are those tips.
Tips to Avoid Someone
Pretend
The first thing that we can do to avoid someone is to make a pretend. This can be used only when we meet an unnamed people for the first time. To pretend try to do the flowing:
When people have seen us, try to pretend not to see this people.
When people say hello, pretend not to hear the voice.
When people try to touch us, pretend to be busy with anything around you
This way will be effective for more sensitive people because a more sensitive people will easily realize that we do not intend to get acquaintance with him or her. Beside that we can also apply this method for low confident people. We will not easily guest about people's character, so at least we have to try this first step.
Making a good reason to go as soon as possible
When you meet with the same people who want to get acquaintance with you for the second time and you know that this people still insist to get closer with you so you need to do this second tip. Make a good reason to go as soon as possible, say that you are in hurry say that you are busy or say other reasonable things. By doing this you also imply that you are not interested with this people. For some peoples this will be considered as impolite so you be careful with this.
Commonly when we have done the two tips above, people will realize and consider that he or she is not to be wished or wanted. Only some people who really have a good spirit to know you more who will go further.
Be honest
The last thing that can be done to avoid someone successfully is to be honest with that people. This last thing can be done if we have failed with previous tips. On this case you may say politely that you are not interested in making a new relationship what so ever it may call. Do not forget to be polite and state the most logical reason which can be accepted.
By saying the truth that we are not interested it will stimulate people to accept and respect our privacy. On most cases this tip will enable us to avoid certain people we do not want.
Some important things which have to be considered before applying these tips as follow:
Pay more attention about the condition and the situation in which this case is take place. Different people with different condition will create different result, so just choose the most appropriate way.
People characteristic will influence the result of what we have done, sometimes a great people will never be easy to be defeated.
Sometimes some people will consider the tips above are impolite so it will mostly depend on how good you play it.
The essence of those tips above is to express our unwillingness to someone that we do not want to get in close, the sooner this people know your intention the faster this people will go away from you.
